For most people in addiction recovery, their instinct is to keep it to themselves. They may have become quite comfortable talking about their active addiction history with a therapist, group, and certain family members, but they are usually aware that addiction, especially to drugs like cocaine, meth, or heroin, is beyond the ken of most people. Even if you’ve dealt with the shame that typically goes along with addiction, you might be wary of sharing your experiences with people who have no frame of reference for understanding what you’ve been through. If you’re considering sharing your experience with addiction, here are some factors to consider.
Pros
Although public awareness about addiction has increased significantly in recent years, there is still a stigma attached to addiction. People who struggle with addiction probably feel this stigma more keenly than most people. In fact, it’s one of the most common reasons people don’t seek help even when they know they need it. Another thing about addiction is that even though it is discussed in the media more and more, people with substance use issues still suffer in private. A common characteristic of addiction is that you get very good at hiding it from the people closest to you. As a result, addiction is highly visible in official statistics but almost invisible when you look around at the people you know in real life. That can feel alienating for people who suffer with addiction while also reinforcing the stigma. Speaking out about your experience can be a way of making the problem more visible and helping other people know they aren’t alone. People who have never struggled with addiction realize that at least one person they know belongs to the faceless millions they hear about in news reports. It humanizes the problem and typically makes people more supportive of treatment and public programs to know someone who is personally affected. Your recovery may also be an example for someone who wants help but hasn’t quite mustered the courage.
Cons
For all the progress we’ve made understanding addiction as a complex problem involving mental illness, genetic factors, and personal history, the latest research hasn’t quite filtered out to all quarters of society. A significant percentage of Americans still see addiction as a moral failing or a lack of self-discipline. Even people who intellectually know what addiction is really about may become squeamish when it comes to hiring or friendships. Having it generally known that you’ve struggled with addiction may hurt you professionally or socially. It’s not fair, but in some social circles, and in some companies, that’s just the way it goes. If you want to take a risk on principle, the way early LGBT activists came out when there were no guarantees even of their physical safety, that’s great, but you should have a clear idea of what you might be risking. It might be better to be circumspect, and only share your addiction history when it might do some definite good.
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